How do i grow my hair out softer?

LORD NO WHAT THE HECK you shaving your hair make's it thicker so you took a step DOWN! go to a salone maybe a black one and ask for a relaxer when it grown back out to the way you want and will take the girls and the thickness out for A LIL WHILE! but keep going and bom no prob! or get a wig glued to your head like gaga